Relationships

Relationships in Conflict

Conflict can deepen or damage our relationships. We are often very good at the damage bit and no one has shown us how to do the deepening bit.

My Part in the Relationship

We see ourselves as completely reasonable and not at fault. In any or all difficult situations, part of it is down to us, it might only be a tiny bit, but we play our part. Here, we will talk about how can we step up to our part, be responsible and lead the way to both of us taking responsibility for our parts.

Their Part in the Relationship

It is completely their fault and why should I have to take any responsibility for their unreasonable attitude? How we can help them help us? Some simple steps to put us both back on track.

Relationships Mechanics

At times we can be both be reasonable and get along OK, but something every now and again just seems to mess things up? What is that and were does it come from?

Healthy Relationships

Is is rare to have good conflict resolution skills modelled for us in a healthy relationship. There are many descriptions of what a healthy relationship should be like. We will cover that here and add in our experience and expertise from a conflict perspective.